You don’t need to be a superhero to be kind to other individuals. Only you need a little effort to make somebody feel special and important. Even you don’t need to know his or her name. Try these 20 tips to become a better and happy person.
20 Lesson Of How To Be A Better Person And Be Happy
1. Curb criticisms.
Now a days people criticizes others brutally but to be a better and happy person don’t do criticize mercilessly. On the contrary try to practice constructive criticism in which the person who is being criticized will get a solution.
2. Babysit the kids of your busy neighbors.
Working parents cannot have time to talk each other and they can’t spend their free time intimately. You can help them. Just take their kids off their hands and let them go out on a well-deserved date so they can spend some romantic time together. This will make you a better person in their eyes.
3. Be kinder to yourself
First be kind to yourself for the sake to be kinder to others. Praise yourself and allow some time for you during weekends or some other days. This can help to start your self-care crusade.
4. “Please” and “Thank You
Technology and society can be changed throughout the centuries but the words “Please” and “Thank you” will never be stale or back-dated. Whenever you utter these magical words, they always make you feel honored and needed.
5. Donate your used books or magazines.
Books can be pretty much expensive. Everybody can’t buy books. So after reading books just give them others. this will play an important role in supporting public education, especially for the impoverished people. your reading books and magazines can fill their reading room and can help them to acquire knowledge.
6. Engage the shy guest in small talk.
Introverts usually fear social gatherings but they can enjoy the company of one. You will recognize them easily because they usually secluded from the gatherings. Just start a conversation with him or her and if you are the host of the party just tell him nicely to give you a hand in doing something. They will like it.
7. Give up your seat on a public transport for those who need it.
Though it’s a law in some places doing it you can show others how honored you are to those who need to be prioritized in public transport. This practice will establish you as a respected person with impeccable manners. Most of all you will feel happy because you helped someone.
8. Lay low on the judgments.
People have different religious beliefs according to their social environment and cultural backgrounds. Don’t judge one for his belief. Just try to understand their belief. Maybe you will not agree with them but you will learn to respect individuals for what they believe.
9. Leave a gift for someone in a public place.
For terrorist attacks now people feel horrible seeing boxes or paperbags lying anywhere in public. Just try to be more conscious and creative and leave the gift in public places in a way that it won’t arise suspicion. You can leave a note with the gift to ensure that you left it in good faith.
10. Make way for those who are in a hurry.
11. Pick your battles and know when to give up graciously.
Sometime it’s worth to fight for something but don’t try to win every battle. Sometimes it’s cleverer to give up in order to confront the battle later. This practice will establish you as a matured person and will protect you from pointless frustration.
12. Praise others generously.
“If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”- this proverb is known to all. Praise people for their good deeds. Though it’s difficult for some people to praise others, try to practice it. Observe positively others work and say something nice for it.
13. Reach out to those who need kindness the most.
Baking cookies for an orphanage, cooking food for a homeless shelter, volunteering at an old home can make you a kinder person. Some of these helpless beings may have their own family and others may not. Whatever, if you give your time for them will be a wonderful blessing for them and this practice will bring peace in your mind.
Just volunteer at your local school and share your knowledge and experience with the kids. It’s a very good way to share your passion with others. Usually, children and adolescents are great listeners and by listening to you they can contribute to society in the future.
15. Show compassion to those who are rude to you.
Never avoid rude people. They can irritate you and test your patience but don’t use offensive words to them. Instead, use kind words to them to let them know that you are not going to make a quarrel with them. This will establish you as an honored person in their eyes.
16. Stand up for others
Be the light at the end of the tunnel for them who think the whole world is against them. Be the one on whom they can depend. In this way, they will get their hope back, feel a lot stronger and braver. What you will get in return is mental satisfaction.
17. Stop complaining.
Now it’s the time when everyone gets on complaint rant on social media like Facebook, Twitter, and others. Don’t do it anymore. Practice posting some positive statuses. Resist the urge to complain.
18. Stretch your tolerance a bit further for a loved one.
There are some people in your life whom you love but they can be annoying and test your nerves and thus they can ruin your moment. You can’t leave them because you love them. so be patient with them and if they cross the limit of being annoying just limit your interactions.
19. Surprise your loved ones with notes of encouragement.
You can surprise your beloved one by saying them some simple words of encouragement. This will help them in fueling their determination through the day. It will also give them the message how much love and care you feel for them.